Not as Smooth as I Thought

Well Saturday was fine ended up spending the evening just the two of use, quiet and relaxed.
Sunday was a little different. The wife and I ended up going to my cousins place to watch the football game and order some KFC for dinner, the usual guys showed up and she brought her guitar with her to practice. I'll say that everything was great my wife wife was in the other room practicing for at least an hour thenl after we ate dinner and my friend thats having her own problems called me. My friend was fine and she was talking to my buddies and I on the phone, after a couple hour my wife is all bundled up and walking through the rec room with her guitar and telling me that she's going home! I asked her to give me two minutes and I'll have my stuff gathered up so we could go home, she never even slowed down. Out the door she went. I ran out the door to ask her to wait but all she said was "ask one of your buddies to drive you home". To make a long story short, it was cold the car took time to warm up and I ended up sitting in the car with her. It's been almost 24 hrs and she hasn't explained to me what bothered her or is bothering her yet. If any body can figure this one out let me know, cause intil she tells me I'm lost!

Another Saturday

This morning I woke up thinking "What kind of clock does my wife base her day on?", I say this because I went to bed at midnight last night only to be awaken at 5 am when my wife was getting ready for bed. I tried to go back to bed but I wasn't able to, feeling a little frustrated all I did was toss and turn the rest of the morning eventually getting out of bed around 9:30. She is supposed to take her medication in the evenings that help her fall asleep but I guess the effectiveness is not there because she's been taking it for so long. Considering how much we spend on her medication (close to $500 cdn/month) I wish they would work. Now that I think about it no wonder I'm broke!

Anyways I haven't decided what I'm going to do but it's probably going to be the same thing I do every weekend, sit on my ass and drink some beer (that reminds me better throw some in the fridge) with my cousin and a couple of other buddies. Considering that there is almost no sports to watch like hockey, I'll end up watching the NFL. It's not that I don't like to it's just that I haven't kept up with it this year.

Turned Out Really Good, I Think.

Last Sunday I was intending on going over to a friends house to watch the Grey Cup game but that didn't happen. It turned out that my friends parents were having their own little party (which I found out it wasn't little the next day) so I invited everybody over to my place. My wife was really nervous from what I could tell but she didn't really say anything to me when I told her what I was going to do. All in All 12 people showed up and we had a great time, had lots of pizza, beer and chips.

The only problem I ended up encountering was on Monday, not my hang over but one of my friends brought over her ex-boyfriend, he thought one of my other friends was talking to her like a boyfriend and didn't like that. What bothers me is that these two have meet twice before and in my presence. My wife at first laughed when she heard this and said that I was alot closer to her than my other friend. Well anyways this has ended up me being a counseler to her. I love as a good friend and do not like seeing her hurt or anybody hurt. I'm starting to wonder do I attract people that need help, is this punishment or was I brought to this world to help people? It's really something that I don't get, my life is full of women that other people would not even talk to because of this.

I don't know if any of that made sense, sorry.

Back to Work

On Tuesday I returned to work after my two weeks of holiday, is it just me or does it seem like holiday you end up working more than you would if you were at work? Considering that I think I was glad to go back, call me nuts.

My wife has been very happy the last couple of weeks, which scares me because the only way to go is down from the level she is at and the only real question is how far will she go. I know I shouldn't think about it like that but I can't help it. This Sunday is the the CFL Grey Cup game, I intend to watch it at my friends house but I don't know if thats going to happen because it the persons house where the first incident I wrote about in this blog started the last episode. I asked her to come along with me but she still hasn't given me an answer. Maybe I'll just call everybody to my place.

Other than that everythings good, GO BC LIONS!!!

Bad Week

It has been a really bad week for me personally. It was suppose to be a nice 2 week holiday but it ended up working even harder at home getting rooms ready since I have new tenants moving in this week, getting the suites cleaned is a pain is the ass. Also my computer decided to die on me and getting my wife angry because I hadn't backed up the system in two weeks, then there is this thing with getting sick on holidays every year, I don't know what it is but never fails to show up.

Well other than that I'm still waiting for the hospital to call but I don't think is gonna happen at all. She's doing fine but I'm still doing everything at home also, dishes, laundry, etc... Oh well. I guess I signed up for this when I married her.

Just want to thank everybody again for the comments!

So far so good

I don't think I mentioned it but halloween was our 6th wedding anniversary, and it went very well. Got her a simple gift and went out for dinner at our favorite japanese restaurant. I've also have been on holidays and will be for two weeks. This will give me an opportunity to see what see does during the day while I am at work. The last two days I've noticed that she doesn't really do much but I could be because I am home and probably expects me to do it. So far this week I have fixed a leaking water main, repaired a leaking roof and I still have to clean a apartment suite for my next tenants. Now that I think about it I'm probably going to end up doing more work now than I would at work.

It seems like her abdominal pains have subsided a bit but she has an appointment for a ultrasound to see if anything is wrong, it scares me thinking that maybe she can't have children because of ovarian cancer or something like that. I really don't know what I would do if that was to happen. I would probably end up drinking again. Hold on I already do that, probably end up drinking more than I do now.